S:0296 Quote: The Impossible

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “Man who catch fly with chopstick[s] accomplish anything.” Mr. Miyagi – a character in the movie “The Karate Kid”   Coaching Point: Each of us have our own tool to master in order to do what is “impossible”. Discover your “chopsticks” and catch your “fly”.  …Continue Reading →

S:0295 Distinction: Choose To Change vs. Give Up

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   It’s hard to give up. Giving up can feel like defeat or resignation, maybe even like being a victim. Giving up is always accompanied by a sense of loss. But when you want to change something,…Continue Reading →

S:0294 Personal Needs: The Need To Be Heard

(An unmet Need causes us to feel empty, incomplete or less than whole. Fulfilling a Need gives us freedom to be ourselves.)   Your first reaction might be to say that everyone has a need to be heard; we all like it when someone listens to us. However, today very few people have a place…Continue Reading →

S:0293 Principle: You Can Be Right Or You Can Be Effective

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   Why not both? Seems reasonable, that you could be both right and effective, and sometimes you can. However, most of the time “being right” gets in the way of “being effective”. If you have a need to be…Continue Reading →