S:0419 Quote: More and Less

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “People rarely have more than they will not allow themselves to have less than.” John Barnes   Coaching Point: Most people get enough money — that’s a for-instance, it could be love, time, peace, etc. — to avoid having something unpleasant happen. When they get enough…Continue Reading →

S:0418 Principle: Reactions Show Us Our Stuff

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   What do you react to? Strongly react? Maybe even to the point of being upset? Anything you react to is a gift. Why? Because you only have a reaction to something on the outside if it is similar…Continue Reading →

S:0417 Distinction: Coaching vs. Therapy

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   People occasionally ask if coaching is therapy. Since some of the skills and processes are similar, it can look that way. However there is a big difference in approach. Coaching accepts emotions as normal functioning while…Continue Reading →

S:0416 Distinction: Delusion vs. Denial

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   When you have a delusion, you have a mistaken impression about something. You don t have the facts right. You are incorrect. When you are in denial, you also have a false impression about something but…Continue Reading →