S:0466 Distinction: Not Present vs. Lacking

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   When something is simply not currently present in your life — and many things you want probably aren t currently present — you can still be fine. You can desire those things. Work toward them. Even…Continue Reading →

S:0465 Distinction: Care About vs. Worry

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   You can care very much about an outcome without worrying about it. Worry is a condition you have been normed to, but it is not normal to worry. It is normal to care about. When you…Continue Reading →

S:0464 Quote: Freedom

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “Real Freedom is being free from self pre-occupation.” Don Beck   Coaching Point: How many people do you know who are almost totally focused on themselves? Are they fun to be around? To know what you want, and go for it is, of course, useful, but…Continue Reading →

S:0463 Quote: Fear

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “Fear is about 3 inches deep. When you step into it, there s just nothing there.” Mark Head (mhead@hrtechsuite.com)   Coaching Point: Where are you letting fear hold you back?   Copyright 2004 Steve Straus. All rights reserved.Continue Reading →