S:0607 Distinction: Commitment vs. To-Do

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   Having a lot of to-do’s can feel burdensome, maybe even overwhelming at times. One reason is because there may be something extra added to the to-do. A to-do is simply a task you have decided to…Continue Reading →

S:0606 Quote: Anybody

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “If anybody can do it, I can do it.” Steve Straus   Coaching Point: Yes, that’s the inverse of the traditional saying of “If I can do it, anybody can do it.” But think about it. If something can be done by at least one other…Continue Reading →

S:0605 Distinction: I Do That vs. I Knew That

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   When was the last time you heard an idea and thought, “I knew that”? You took a class, or read a book, or listened to an audio program and got a bunch of new plans, actions,…Continue Reading →

S:0604 Distinction: Desirable vs. Reasonable

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   What do you really desire? Is it reasonable? There seems to be some confusion around these two topics, desire and reason. A long-time style of goal setting teaches that there are several basic components of an…Continue Reading →