S:0710 Great Question: Prove?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.)   “What are you trying to prove and to whom are you trying to prove it?”   Coaching Point: This is a compound question. Each part asks a different question but your answers to each will help you see the answer to the other. Ask…Continue Reading →

S:0709 Great Question: Fulfillment?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.)   “Will this bring me long-term fulfillment or merely short-term gratification?   Coaching Point: This is a tough one for most people. It’s not just about deferring gratification; that’s old technology. Effective for some, but tired. This question is about living your life from choice.…Continue Reading →

S:0708 Quote: Change

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “The art of progress consists in maintaining order within our processes of change, and change within our processes of order.” Dr. Alfred North Whitehead   Coaching Point: Change is rarely as easy to do as it is to imagine doing. How do you change? More specifically,…Continue Reading →

S:0707 Quote: Anger and Determination

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “… anger should not determine action, only the determination to act.” George Mason   Coaching Point: Wow! How clear! It’s useful to feel what you feel. In fact, it’s useful to feel fully what you feel. Anger is a feeling which, when you are experiencing it,…Continue Reading →

S:0706 Principle: Enthusiasm Aligns

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   We traditionally think of enthusiasm as being about wonderful energy, positive attitude, eagerness and desire. The passion of enthusiasm can move mountains. There is another, often overlooked, attribute of enthusiasm — formerly random pieces of information, ideas, thoughts,…Continue Reading →