S:0749 Distinction: Floundering vs. Stuck

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   It may seem odd to be glad you’re floundering since it sounds like a place you wouldn’t want to be. But there is a world of difference between floundering and stuck. Stuck is frozen, no options,…Continue Reading →

S:0748 Distinction: Give Input vs. Criticize

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   This distinction is about the tone of your delivery. When you criticize someone it is conveyed, primarily, by your tone of voice. [It may also be conveyed by your words and physical demeanor because you fully…Continue Reading →

S:0747 Distinction: Scared vs. Terrified

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   It’s easy to get scared. There are many things during the course of life about which you can become scared. It’s okay to be scared. But it’s not okay to be terrified. When you’re terrified you…Continue Reading →

S:0746 Principle: Change the Beginning

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   Would you agree that when you begin something it causes outcomes to occur? This is true whether the beginning is to do or not to do something. Outcomes always follow beginnings. So, what if you are in the…Continue Reading →