S:0821 Great Question: Struggle?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.)   “What would my life be like if I gave up struggle?”   Coaching Point: It can be easy to believe that you have to struggle in order to achieve the outcomes you want. Effort/ hard work/push/Do-Do-Do, our surrounding culture supports the belief that working…Continue Reading →

S:0820 Principle: Attachment (To A Time Frame)

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   This S3MC is about attachment to timing, which is when you try to force an outcome to occur by a certain time. The key word here is force. If you are attached to a time-certain, you may be…Continue Reading →

S:0819 Distinction: Results vs. Reasons

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   The old saying is, “You can have either reasons or results. And reasons don’t count.” Results are real. Reasons are stories. Results teach you. Reasons trick you. Results create results. Reasons create victims.   Coaching Point:…Continue Reading →

S:0818 Distinction: Desire (Real) vs. Desire (Something Else)

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   There seems to be some confusion about what Desire is. When you have real, true desire you are experiencing something which feels good. It’s a clean, simple, centering, powerful experience. You are designed to have desires.…Continue Reading →

S:0817 Principle: Fail To Fit In

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   When you just fit in, your passion dies a little. When you just fit in, we all lose the contribution you could have made. When you just fit in, you believe in your own truth a little less.…Continue Reading →