S:0838 Distinction: Question vs. Answer

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   This Distinction may seem backwards; the answer may seem more important than the question. But maybe not. When confronted by a situation — an issue, a problem, a barrier — it’s pretty normal to immediately jump…Continue Reading →

S:0837 Great Question: Escape Key?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.)   [Occasionally in life we get caught in dead-in’s, scary places, confusion, and doubt about what to do next. Most modern software and ‘smart’ devices have an Escape Key function.] “What is the Escape Key which returns me to my Main Menu?”   Coaching Point:…Continue Reading →

S:0836 Distinction: Happy vs. Unhappy

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   Yes, this Distinction seems obvious, but there is a key question you can ask which opens it to deeper use. “Do I do things to be happy, or do I do things to keep from being…Continue Reading →

S:0835 Distinction: Learner vs. Seeker

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   Learners and Seekers appear to be in the same game, but they’re not. Both enjoy data, information, knowledge, and, of course, wisdom. Both tend to be engaged in life, reading, studying, taking classes and attending seminars.…Continue Reading →