S:0965 Principle: Your Idealized Self

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   There is someone you know who is perfect in all respects. They never make a mistake, are always on time, have terrific recall, are a master of planning, and live without fear. Who is this? You know them…Continue Reading →

S:0964 Distinction: Educate vs. Regulate

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   When directing others what do you want to accomplish? It’s the outcome, isn’t it? Too frequently leaders, managers, parents, and others in charge slip into believing the way to an outcome is to focus people on…Continue Reading →

S:0963 Distinction: Privacy vs. Secrecy

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   These two words may seem similar but there is a hidden nature to one of them which defines the Distinction. You and I have a right to privacy, a fundamental right we have as humans, demonstrated…Continue Reading →

S:0962 Quote: You Never Really Know

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   [Cue the music and sing along…] “(You) never really know. Never really know. Make your plan so carefully, but it burns out of control. (You) never really see. Though you never really see, something hiding in the shadows brings you screaming to your knees.” Richie Sambora…Continue Reading →

S:0961 Distinction: Inside-Out vs. Outside-In

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   Think of the coolest, calmest, most together person you’ve ever met. The person who didn’t need to convince you of anything. They are someone who knows who they are and what they want. Their strength comes…Continue Reading →