S:1065 Quote: Constructive Doubt

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “Constructive Doubt is to doubt the values valued by unhappy people.” Vernon Howard   Coaching Point: All of us demonstrate our values, consciously or not. Happy people value certain things which tend to be different from what unhappy people value. While we don’t normally think of…Continue Reading →

S:1064 Principle: Ask Before Tell

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   Have you noticed that successful people ask questions? Lots of questions. They seem to be constantly learning. Have you noticed that great teachers, when you ask them a question, will frequently come back with a slightly different one…Continue Reading →

S:1063 Principle: Willingness

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   Willingness is positive. It’s a source of energy with openness, perhaps even eagerness. There are people (you know who I mean) who seem to always look for what’s wrong, off, bad, scary, or upsetting. They look for reasons…Continue Reading →

S:1062 Great Question: Afraid?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.)   “What am I afraid of?”   Coaching Point: Fear is a powerful motivator to do … nothing, to stay frozen. Merely by asking this Great Question you begin to diminish the hold a fear has on you. Being willing to look it in the…Continue Reading →

S:1061 Principle: Self-Love

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   Consider your heart. The right side receives old, used, dark blood from your veins and pumps it into your lungs. There it is revitalized into healthy, energy-filled, bright red blood which is pumped by the left side of…Continue Reading →