S:1126 Great Question: Working?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.)   “What’s working?”   Coaching Point: So often we focus on what is off, wrong, broken, etc. In other words, what’s NOT working? That’s a useful place . . . to visit. Just don’t live there. Instead, when you choose to ask this Great Question…Continue Reading →

S:1125 Distinction: Responsible vs. Paranoid

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   Of course, be responsible for seeing the truth of your world. Be responsible for correcting anything (within your control) which is preventing your life from working well. To be responsible is healthy and rewarding. Then there…Continue Reading →

S:1124 Quote: Purpose

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “The secret of man’s being is not only to live but to have something to live for.” Fyodor Dostoyevsky   Coaching Point: The question of purpose provides different answers over time. Things change, you evolve, the important becomes the unimportant, the unimportant becomes the important, nothing…Continue Reading →

S:1123 Quote: Learning

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “More valuable than learning how to avoid mistakes is learning how to correct them when they occur, because they will.” Brady Lane   Coaching Point: Lane was speaking about building an airplane from a kit. Learning and getting it right is pretty important when you’re a…Continue Reading →

S:1122 Principle: Gifts and Problems

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   If you see something as a problem, it’s hard to see the gift within it. If you see something as a gift, it’s hard to see the problem within it. What you look for determines what you see.…Continue Reading →