S:0305 Quote: Attempting to Control Your Life

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “You cannot control your life, you can only do what’s right in each moment. Your approach to the moments becomes your life.” David Viscott – from his book “Finding Your Strength in Difficult Times”   Coaching Point: He also said “I allow people to be what…Continue Reading →

S:0304 Distinction: Intuit vs. Prejudge

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   It is useful to expand your intuitive skills; they are underdeveloped in most people. Intuition used regularly can be an important part of your success tools package. What is intuition? To intuit is to know something…Continue Reading →

S:0303 Quote: Life

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “People tend to forget how big their lives are. I help them remember.” Bruce Wood – Choreographer   Coaching Point: Who do you help to remember how big their life is? (This is the essence of coaching.)   Copyright 2001 Steve Straus. All rights reserved.Continue Reading →

S:0302 Personal Needs: The Need To Be Self-Regulating

(An unmet Need causes us to feel empty, incomplete or less than whole. Fulfilling a Need gives us freedom to be ourselves.)   This is a common need. To be self-regulating means to be in control of your own destiny. It means you get to determine how your day will unfold. No one else decides…Continue Reading →

S:0301 Quote: For You or Against You

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “Men are not against you; they are merely for themselves.” Gene Fowler   Coaching Point: If you do not see the truth in this, you can go into judgement about another’s behavior. It’s easy to judge someone when they cut in front of you on the…Continue Reading →