S:1321 Great Question: Who Benefits?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “Who benefits?” Coaching Point: When making decisions where others are involved it can be easy to pull inward and think only, or primarily, of yourself. Pretty normal but can lead to limited awareness of your options and their implications. The old saw that “Everyone is…Continue Reading →

S:1320 Personal Need: To Not Be Criticized

(An unmet Need causes us to feel empty, incomplete, or less than whole. Fulfilling a Need gives us freedom to be ourselves.) Most Needs reflect a feeling that something is missing, a hole in us, therefore we need the outside to supply it. Once supplied, we feel whole and okay – for a while. Then…Continue Reading →

S:1319 Great Question: Good Life?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What makes for a good life?” Coaching Point: This is almost a trick question.Some will read it looking for answers from others, the outside. An amazing percent of the population either assume they know or are willing to take what someone else says as their…Continue Reading →

S:1318 Quote: Change

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.) “It’s worth remembering that for any change to happen in your life, you must be wrong about something.” “The more something threatens your identity, the more you will avoid it.” “Uncertainty is the root of all progress and all growth.” Mark Manson Coaching Point: Change. Some love…Continue Reading →