S:1167 Great Fear: Of Not Winning

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   We all want to win. The definition of winning differs for each of us. Even people who claim to not be interested in winning are. They simply have another name for it. To win is to experience an outcome which is meaningful to you. The…Continue Reading →

S:1147 Great Fear: Of Being Unhappy

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.) [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society and can have a numbing effect on one’s happiness.]   Isn’t it…Continue Reading →

S:1136 Great Fear: Uncertainty

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society and can have a numbing effect on one’s happiness.]   Life…Continue Reading →

S:1119 Great Fear: Of Not Getting What I Think I Want

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society and can have a numbing effect on one’s happiness.] “… not…Continue Reading →

S:1113 Great Fear: Of Separateness

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.) [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society and can have a numbing effect on one’s happiness.]   The ego…Continue Reading →

S:1079 Great Fear: Of Not Remaining Relevant

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society and can have a numbing effect on one’s happiness.] Relevance is…Continue Reading →

S:1038 Great Fear: Of Missing Out

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society with a numbing effect on one’s happiness.] This Great Fear is…Continue Reading →

S:1029 Great Fear: Loneliness

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   Loneliness is not the same as being alone. One can be alone and quite content. For instance, introverts need alone time to recharge their batteries. That’s healthy behavior for them. Loneliness is different. It is feeling separate-from, disconnected, isolated. From others. From events. From possibilities.…Continue Reading →

S:0969 Great Fear: Of The Future

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   This is one of the most common of all fears, and usually the least recognized because it is masked by the process of contingency planning. Planning for possible outcomes, contingency planning, is a hallmark of highly successful people. They don’t just sit in place reacting…Continue Reading →

S:0957 Great Fear: Loss of Control

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   Control is an interesting concept. Thinking you have control over anything is to have one of the most common of beliefs. Nearly everywhere you look there are messages that you should be in control — of your behavior, of situations, of others, of outcomes, even…Continue Reading →

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