S:1464 Great Question: Networks?
(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What are my Networks?” Coaching Point: Ordinary life today is too complex for one to be a master in everything it takes to thrive. We each have our unique talents and capabilities in some areas. The rest call for others to assist us. Our network. […]
S:1456 Great Question: What If?
(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What If…?” Coaching Point: What If is a playful question. If you want it to be. It can also be a deeply troubling one.A dividing line between playful and troubling is Now. When you look forward from Now with the What If question on your […]
S:1450 Great Question: Ambition?
(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What is my current greatest ambition?” Coaching Point: The key word is “current.” Time passes. Ambitions get satisfied. Or they don’t. Or they fade into unimportance. Remember some of the ambitions you had as a child? As a teenager? As a young adult? Where are […]
S:1445 Great Question: Unfriendly?
(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What did I do that was unfriendly, unsocial, or uncaring?” Coaching Point: At first glance you make not like this Great Question. It seems to be looking in the wrong direction. Its value is in being open to see yourself. Fully. Aware. We all mess […]
S:1442 Great Question: Tranquil Mind?
(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “Why have a tranquil mind?” Coaching Point: A tranquil mind is not a little gift. A tranquil mind radiates peace. A tranquil mind is open to receiving inspiration, magic even. A tranquil mind acts quickly when action is called for. To develop a tranquil mind, […]
S:1436 Great Question: Afford?
(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “How can I afford it?” Coaching Point: When confronted with a need or desire to spend above a certain limit we can have a scarcity thought: “I can’t afford it” is a common knee-jerk reaction. It’s based in the past. “I can’t” is an automatic […]
S:1431 Great Question: Simpler?
(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “How can I make my life simpler?” Coaching Point: Just one thing. By making one thing in your life simpler you change the trajectory of the rest of your life. Multiple small changes give outsized cumulative results. Life gets easier. Becoming easily accustomed to looking […]
S:1429 Great Question: The Ugliest?
(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What Is The Ugliest Thing About Me?” Coaching Point: Ugly is a word which expresses itself with the mere saying of it. We don’t enjoy the feelings evoked by the word ugly. Sure, all life is contextual including judgements of what is ugly. So I […]
S:1420 Great Question: How Much Is Enough?
(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “How much is enough?” Coaching Point: Imagine hearing this question spoken with a disparaging tone. Some negative judging implied. That’s frequently the case whether it is spoken to us or by us to ourselves! Maybe it’s a conversation about deserving. Or belief in a perceived […]
S:1411 Great Question: What Keeps Me From Being Me?
(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What,in me,keeps mefrom being who I want to be?” Coaching Point: Answers to this Great Question are best discerned by breaking it into parts. First, start at the end – who do you want to be? Have you defined it? Have you clarified why you […]
