S:1383 Great Question: Past and Fear?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What from my past am I projecting to the future as a fear?” Coaching Point: It’s called Projection. It’s when we assume what we imagine for the future is what will happen. This is true whether we are conscious of our thoughts about the future […]

S:1382 Great Question: Of?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What am I Of?” Coaching Point: What does it mean to be Of? We know what it’s like to be separate-from, outside-of, opposed-to. Feeling like ‘they’ know something we don’t. This feeling outside-of is a stage all people go through, certainly during our teenage years. […]

S:1377 Great Question: Delights?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What delights me most?” Coaching Point: Delights is a lovely word. It’s difficult to have heavy emotions when you say the word. Try it. Notice that ‘delights’ is, well, a delightful word. So what’s the point of bringing it up? The simple daily grind of […]

S:1373 Great Question: Memories?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What memories do I recall most?” Coaching Point: A common theme in the S3MC portfolio is an encouragement to live in the present. A Be-Here-Now sort of focus. The past, and the future, have their place in a life well lived, but you want to […]

S:1371 Great Question: Let Go?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “Can I just let go and follow the invisible into the unknown?” Coaching Point: Letting go is hard. And easy. To let go means not being in control. For some that’s too scary to even contemplate. Imagining they have their hand on the tiller of […]

S:1367 Great Question: Creation?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What has been my best creation to date?” Coaching Point: This is a trick question. The first answer which popped into your mind is different from the one which might have popped up a few years ago. And different from the one a few years […]

S:1360 Great Question: Comfortably Receive?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “How much positive energy can I comfortably receive right now?” Coaching Point: The key word in this Great Question is ‘comfortably’. Everybody can receive something. The issue is: how much? You’ve seen the now classic stories about lottery winners returning to their previous lifestyle within […]

S:1355 Great Question: Amazes?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What amazes me?” Coaching Point: Children spend much of their time amazed. That’s because each day can be an introduction to something new, interesting, wonderful. For them there is a continual unfoldment of something they haven’t seen before, had no idea existed, and, well, amazes […]

S:1350 Great Question: Happy?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What are the consequences of my not being happy?” Coaching Point: This Great Question flips the happiness topic on its head. Usually we ask – What does it take for me to be happy? Or is it okay for me to focus on happiness? Or […]

S:1348 Great Question: Unrequited?

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What is my greatest unrequited desire?” Coaching Point: It has been said that desire is the source of all suffering, however this S3MC looks at a desire not yet experienced as a good thing. Of course, if you are suffering because something you want is […]