(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value, or attitude.)


Prudent is a sign of responsible adulthood. Kids are wild! By design. Testing the edges—and sometimes going beyond them—is useful behavior… for a kid.

As we find our adult groove, we discover meaning and purpose. This helps us act more responsibly. But we can go too far; beyond prudent into fearful.

You can be prudent with a smile. It is the good feeling you get when you have thought about what could happen. Ready for anything that comes your way.

Prudent evokes confidence; it allows you to step into uncertainty with confidence. Prudent is aware of downsides but focuses on desirable outcomes.

Fearful frowns. It worries. Fearful is about pain avoidance.

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Coaching point: Do you enjoy the freedom that prudent provides?


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