S:0851 Principle: Letting Go of Resentment

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   What an experience resentment is. A roller coaster ride of emotions. A depletion of energy. An internal journey to….where? We’re all familiar with anger. It’s loud, clear, and easily felt. Getting on top of, and handling, anger is […]

S:0848 Principle: Change

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   What do you want to change this year? Do you have a clear picture/description of what you want to change? Do you know how your life will be different when you have the change? Have you quantified the […]

S:0842 Principle: Joy of Death

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   “The Joy of Death?!” What? How can there be joy in death? Sure, you know intellectually you’re going to die, but most people tend to try to ignore the fact. Put off thinking about it. Hope it never […]

S:0841 Principle: Hear-Feel-Respond

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   This principle is one which, while fundamental to powerful, effective Coaching, is also useful for any human-to-human communication. It’s simple on the surface, but deeply sophisticated in practice. The first part, hear, means to hear everything — what […]

S:0832 Principle: Ha-Ha’s and Ah-Ha’s

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   Laughter has many benefits. One of them is that when you’re laughing you’re breaking through your mental barriers, the barriers to inspiration and creativity. It’s easy to stay in your head and try to figure everything out, but […]

S:0826 Principle: Risk Being Unliked

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   For many people it’s too painful to be unliked. They pay a high price — emotionally, monetarily, with their time, with a chipping away at pieces of their soul — trying to have others like them. Attempting to […]

S:0824 Principle: Thinking

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   “Outside the Box Thinking” is, and has been for way too long, a popular thought. The intent of the phrase seems to be to stimulate creative thought, that is, to let go of being constrained by what you […]

S:0823 Principle: Intention

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   Occasionally you hear, “I’ve set an intention.” Or, “I have a powerful intention.” Or, “My intention is strong.” Or even, “The road to Hell is paved with good intentions.” In this light intentions sound like something you do, […]

S:0820 Principle: Attachment (To A Time Frame)

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   This S3MC is about attachment to timing, which is when you try to force an outcome to occur by a certain time. The key word here is force. If you are attached to a time-certain, you may be […]

S:0817 Principle: Fail To Fit In

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   When you just fit in, your passion dies a little. When you just fit in, we all lose the contribution you could have made. When you just fit in, you believe in your own truth a little less. […]