(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.)   “What’s the most loving thing I can do, for myself, right now?”   Coaching Point: That’s not ‘selfish’ or ‘greedy’ or ‘needy,’ it’s ‘loving.’ The benefits of treating yourself in a kind and loving way have been documented, studied, and proven for many years…

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   To not know something, and know that you don’t, puts you in league with top performers. Highly successful people know they can never know it all. They don’t stress over that fact. Instead, they seek, ask…

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   There is someone you know who is perfect in all respects. They never make a mistake, are always on time, have terrific recall, are a master of planning, and live without fear. Who is this? You know them…

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   When directing others what do you want to accomplish? It’s the outcome, isn’t it? Too frequently leaders, managers, parents, and others in charge slip into believing the way to an outcome is to focus people on…