S:1136 Great Fear: Of Uncertainty

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society and can have a numbing effect on one’s happiness.]   Life […]

S:1119 Great Fear: Of Not Getting What I Think I Want

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society and can have a numbing effect on one’s happiness.] “… not […]

S:1113 Great Fear: Of Separateness

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.) [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society and can have a numbing effect on one’s happiness.]   The ego […]

S:1079 Great Fear: Of Not Remaining Relevant

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society and can have a numbing effect on one’s happiness.] Relevance is […]

S:1038 Great Fear: Of Missing Out

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   [There are countless fears, yet few are of the level of the Great Fears. A Great Fear is noted by its commonness and its effect; it shows up in a large part of society with a numbing effect on one’s happiness.] This Great Fear is […]

S:1029 Great Fear: Of Loneliness

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   Loneliness is not the same as being alone. One can be alone and quite content. For instance, introverts need alone time to recharge their batteries. That’s healthy behavior for them. Loneliness is different. It is feeling separate-from, disconnected, isolated. From others. From events. From possibilities. […]

S:0969 Great Fear: Of The Future

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   This is one of the most common of all fears, and usually the least recognized because it is masked by the process of contingency planning. Planning for possible outcomes, contingency planning, is a hallmark of highly successful people. They don’t just sit in place reacting […]

S:0957 Great Fear: Of Loss of Control

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   Control is an interesting concept. Thinking you have control over anything is to have one of the most common of beliefs. Nearly everywhere you look there are messages that you should be in control — of your behavior, of situations, of others, of outcomes, even […]

S:0901 Great Fear: Of Loss of Freedom

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   This Great Fear is built into humans, it’s not learned behavior. Oh, the expression of it is learned, and demonstrated uniquely by each person, but the essence of the fear is from a wiring level. It comes from our DNA. You and I are designed […]

S:0864 Great Fear: Of Scarcity

(Great fears are barriers to experiencing your real life.)   To have too little, or feel you have too little, is scary for everyone. The fear of scarcity is, therefore, a major motivator in the world. Notice that (most?) advertising plays to this fear. “If you’ll just buy _______ from us, then you can be […]