(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   To aspire to something better is an important part of human wiring. When you see something which appeals to you that he has, or she does, or they accomplish, it triggers in you the aspirational impulse…

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “You can’t read the label of the jar that you’re in!” Many sources (including the oft-quoted Anonymous) Coaching Point: Without being able to read the label you don’t know where you are or what to do next. You’re just in the jar. Stuck. Probably oblivious about…

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “Assume is the enemy of Aware.” Steve Straus   Coaching Point: Assumptions have their usefulness. They can be shortcuts, life simplifiers which can save you from chasing too many details. Plenty of successful people will tell you that their ability to make decisions without having all…

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   There is a big difference between having something be invisible and having it be not seen. Remember when you first learned to drive. Your full attention was initially on the basics of accelerating, steering, and braking…