(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.)   “What is the most adult thing I can do for me, now?” Coaching Point: Does the question sound selfish? It could. The key is “adult” — past ego, past childish, past should. Look at your goals, what you want, what you desire. Look at…

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   There is a phrase used in many sports about ‘seeing the ball.’ A good player will see the ball all the way into their hands, or into their glove, or to their bat. They don’t take…

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.) Today starts the eighteenth year (870+ issues) of writing and sharing these weekly tips, from a Coaching perspective, about life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. It’s time for a change. I made the decision in the beginning to…

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   People who have the in-born, DNA-level wiring to do something are said to be ‘naturals’ at that something. Athletes, musicians, teachers, mathematicians, Coaches, parents, sales people, artists, everywhere you look and in every endeavor there are…