(An unmet Need causes us to feel empty, incomplete, or less than whole. Fulfilling a Need gives us freedom to be ourselves.) How many songs have been written about this need? Lamentations on unrequited love. Missings. Pain. At core, they speak of a neediness for Love. Not whole – a hole. Needing Love is different …

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “How much is enough?” Coaching Point: Imagine hearing this question spoken with a disparaging tone. Some negative judging implied. That’s frequently the case whether it is spoken to us or by us to ourselves! Maybe it’s a conversation about deserving. Or belief in a perceived …

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.) There are many ways to learn. This S3MC is about learning through the process of writing. In first high school, then college I was at best an awkward writer, uncomfortable creating sentences, paragraphs, whole papers. Struggling to write was …

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement, or enlightenment.) “Great opportunities are not seen with your eyes. They are seen with your mind.”“Most people never win because they’re more afraid of losing.”“People who avoid failure also avoid success.” Robert T. Kiyosaki Coaching Point: Are you someone who regularly imagines success? Do you always hold the inner …

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.) Nearly everyone is naturally good at something. It’s in their wiring. Some use their talent to have early success, which can be a trap. For instance you know of athletes who rode their natural talents to success …

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.) You become what you study. You study because you have to. You have to because someone or some situation makes you. Or you have to because you are so drawn to it that, well, you have to. Research, analyze, …