(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.)   Your happiness is entirely your own responsibility. No one else can ensure your happiness. No one else can prevent your happiness, either.   Coaching Point: How’s it going for you so far?   Copyright 2007 Steve Straus. All…

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.)   “What have I lost in my life by not asking?”   Coaching Point: Most people don’t ask for what they want because they’re afraid of some “negative” outcome such as rejection. Or they’re afraid of acceptance and then they’ll have to perform. Or they’re…

(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.)   Inquiry is powerful. Reaction is not. A calm review of a situation can show you things, teach you things, assist your growth. A panicked, short-of-breath, Oh-my-gosh, I’m-almost-overwhelmed reaction rarely teaches you anything. Frequently practice the inquiry…

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.)   “Build your own board.” The character “Big Z” in the animated movie “Surf’s Up”   Coaching Point: They’re talking about surfboards. About how you can buy a new board or get a used board from another surfer. But the wise mentor (“Big Z”) advises the youngster…