(Distinctions are subtleties of language that, when gotten, cause a shift in a belief, behavior, value or attitude.) Change. It is continuous, unrelenting, natural, necessary, and beyond the control of any individual, with two basic ways for dealing with it. One is to react and see change as a falling apart. Coming unglued. Unwound. Disintegrating…

(Great questions lead to great answers; weak questions, weak ones.) “What am I becoming?” Coaching Point: More of the same I have been?The same, but more than I have been?More than I have been; not really even the same?What I really am, but have not been expressing?Since every day starts anew and life is a…

(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to come to you easier and quicker.) We were talking about his late father, specifically the relentless way his father had pushed him to excel, when he casually said, “He wanted me to be the best he could be.” Whoa! What did you say? “the best…

(Quotes are capsules of information, reinforcement or enlightenment.) “The most difficult thing is the decision to act. The rest is merely tenacity.” “decidewhether or not the goal is worth the risks involved. If it is, stop worrying.” “Worry retards reaction and makes clear-cut decisions impossible.” “Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace…